This journey is incredibly humbling for me.

From being wounded and not knowing which way is up and wondering whether or not i could be ALIVE or not and at the same time, finding new MEANING in my new life in this FOREIGN place.....It's been an AMAZING journey

I am a daughter, sister, dog-owner and friend.

Currently, i am learning to train my mind and body. I want to hold my body, challenge my physical ability to a level i could never imagine.

I definitely have learn to stop letting these people who do so little for me in my life but control so much of my mind, feeling and emotions.

Learning to let them go from my life is definitely one of the best achievement i ever done to myself.

Goodbye my friends.... Hope when we meet again, we are once strangers again.

Saturday, December 3, 2011

A letter from Kingkong

I found this poem from Dogster, a forum for dog lover…..

When i read it, i thought as though Kingkong is telling me something….

Hi Shiau Lee jie jie,

If it should be that I grow weak,
And pain should keep me from my sleep,
Then you must do what must be done,
For this last battle can't be won.
You will be sad I understand,
Don't let your grief control your hand,
For this day more than all the rest,
Your love for me must stand the test.
We've had so many happy years,
What is to come can hold no fears,
You'd not want me to suffer so,
The time has come, please let me go.
Take me where my needs they'll tend,
And please stay with me until the end,
Hold me firm & speak to me,
Until my eyes no longer see.
I know in time that you will see,
The kindness that you do for me,
Although my tail its last has waved,
From pain and suffering I've been saved.
Please do not grieve it must be you,
Who has this painful thing to do,
We've been so close for all these years,
Don't let your heart hold back your tears.

Love, Kingkong….

Thursday, December 1, 2011

King Kong – My brother, my friend, my companion…..

Today, my 16 years old Mongrel can barely stand up, can barely sniff me, can barely bark at me.  I know he is in pain. But it doesn't stop him from wagging his tail every single time i came home....
 Xiao Xiao...

Dear Kingkong,

i know that you are not well now….But I don’t know whether are you in pain now… However, you never show you are in pain. Your eyes told me you want to sleep all the time…..

Every morning, i whistled for you and you no longer come to me…

Every night, i called you name and you no longer run towards me…

I know you are weak now, but i believe you are also strong as well…

I spoke to myself that i would let you go…. But my heart told me is not up to me whether to let you go…. Is up to you…

I’m so happy to see you ran to the postman today. I’m happy to hear you bark…. Although is not strong as before, but i can hear the bark of bravery. From that time onwards, i know you are not ready to let go…

For the past four months, i no longer see you ran to the backdoor as you always did because you want to send me off to school…. I knew there is something wrong already.

But, I'm glad till today, you were waiting for me to come home even though you were just lying on the floor while you wagged your tail. I love it when you did that.

My heart ache when i change your diapers because i can see how all the blood oozing out from your wound. My heart ache when i did not hear a wimp from you. You are such a strong boy….

Therefore, I'm glad i came back to KL despite i suffer so much at work. There is nothing more important than being by your side till i hear your last breath….


I'll stay by your side till you ready to let go. Let’s be strong together. I promise you that i would stop letting you see my tears because i knew you will tear too…

I love you, Kingkong….

Your sis, your companion
Shiau Lee

Saturday, October 29, 2011

Athena – The Goddess of War


This is not the review of the Korean drama, sequel of Iris -Athena.

But, is my admiration towards the famous Greek Goddess.


Athena is the virgin Patron of the famous Athens.


Athena is known as the Goddess of War because she is the patrons of weapons. She leads battles as the disciplined, strategic side of war. She only is a warrior to defend the State and the native land against the enemies from outside.

She is also the goddess of wisdom, courage, inspiration and civilization. She is the protectress of civilized life, or artesian activities.

She is the first of the three virgin Goddesses, as knows as Maiden, Parthenos, and from this they dedicated a temple to her, and named the temple the Parthenon.

A poetry described her as incarnation of Wisdom, Reason and Purity.

Athens is her city; the olive tree, created by her, is her tree; the owl, is the birth consecrated to her.

I only find out about Athena when  i tried to google the ANTHENA KOREAN DRAMA.

The reason i like Athena is because of the Korean drama

Like Athena, I always want to be brave like her and protect my family, of course cultivate the feminine side of me like her. Of course, we are not looking for war but we are looking forward to have a peaceful and happy home.

And of course i want to have her wisdom, i think is important for a female to have wisdom in this era, because we are no longer in the era of those days with typical housewife at home awaiting for husband to return from work and serve and bear children.

Life is not fair, we cannot have everything perfect in our life. But we do not want our life to be miserable.


Sunday, August 14, 2011

Lee Seung Gi is No 1 Idol among Middle Aged Women.

Here is some news i read and stated that Lee Seung Gi is no. 1 Idol among middle-aged women.
I’m not worry that I'm a good fan of Lee Seung Gi, instead am i categorized in middle-aged women…. But luckily, in Lee Seung Gi Facebook Malaysia, most of them are youngster like me…
Here is a latest news on Lee Seung Gi….

On August 13th, KBS’s ‘Entertainment Relay‘ aired the results of a recent survey that polled ‘Middle-aged Women’s Idols’.
The honor of first place went to none other than Lee Seung Gi, who is currently receiving much love for his role on KBS’s ‘1 Night 2 Days‘. One woman commented, “I end up looking only at Lee Seung Gi while watching ‘1 Night 2 Days’. I just can’t help but smile when I see him.”
Lee Seung Gi once again proved his popularity amongst not only the younger crowd, but also the older generation by surpassing other top stars in the survey, including Hyun Bin who came in second, Bae Yong Joon who came in third, and Jo In Sung who came in sixth place.
Source + Photo: Star News via Nate

Thursday, August 4, 2011

Things I missed in Ipoh

Number 1 thing I missed in Ipoh.

Is something I felt right after I went thru a mentally tortured jam in downtown KL yesterday!!!!

And the thing that top the lists is the traffic in Ipoh. Practically there is no jam in Ipoh. And the only times I experienced jam were during public holidays and weekend, however, these jams are considered small cases to me because I felt the worst when I was in KL. However, I cannot deny that the number of cars in Ipoh does increases over the years I lived in Ipoh.

I miss the most is when I was in Ipoh, I only leave my Ipoh house at 7.30am and i can punch my card in the department by 7.50am. I would said this is luxury. But now, I need to wake up at 5.30 am to prepare to leave the house at 6.15am. I'm taking LRT and STAR

However, life needs to move on. This is the reality. We need to face it no matter. Maybe like what my good friend said I just need another 3 months to fall in love with KL all over again.

Stay put for the next thing I missed in Ipoh!!!!



Sunday, July 3, 2011

Happy People Traits – Do you have any of these traits?

People who are happy always have some similar traits. And i always ask myself what should i do or what should i have to be happy?

Trait 1 – Smile all the time.

For some reasons, i maybe looked cool and snobbish at the first sight. In fact, my college mates once told me that she thought I'm a bitter person because the first time she saw me 8 years ago, i look sad and bitter. But, after a while, she realized she wronged because i always smile and also laugh very loud.

Experts said when you thought of pure happiness, you lips tend to widen and that’s when you smile. And you will see twinkle in your eyes too. And also good vibrant energy circles around your face.


Few months ago, i realized i no longer smile and laugh like last time. And i realized I'm not a happy person anymore. I worked in a stressful environment. I put myself in stressful environment. I blamed other people for making my life miserable.  My colleagues told me i no longer look cheerful as before. I don’t greet my patients with my smile anymore. I do not smile to children anymore. I make older people life miserable with my sour face. I do not response back with smile anymore to strangers.

From that moment onwards, i realized i forgot how to smile and laugh anymore.

So, i decided to use smile as a therapy for myself. No more antibiotics, no more piriton. Only my lips widening as it should be.

Trait 2 – Relaxed body

What else happened when there’s a happy feeling? You will realized your body tends to relaxed. Have you feel your body is relaxed when you sit for your exam or when you are in a competition.

As i no longer being happy person, i realized my body also show signs and symptoms of me being depressing. My body tends to be tired all the time despite i sleep early, eat right and also exercise enough. My body tends to be sick with extra indulge of certain foods like durians. I fell sick and I'm still feeling sick. My body no longer know how to relax anymore.


Therefore, it is important to make yourself happy. Because that’s when your body will relaxed and you will realized you can do better things and perform better with sharp mind and relax body.

Trait No. 3 – The ability to let things go

For another thing i realized too that when I'm no longer happy is i lose the ability to let things go. When i heard my transfer will be on hold because government froze new intake of staffs into my department. I knew that I'll still stay in Ipoh despite is already 4 years. And this issue is a big impact for me. I feel the need to leave Ipoh but i cannot. And I'm still hold on to it. I used to think when you can’t change the things, you can change your mind. I realized i have been holding to the issue and refused to change my mind. And there are some personal grudges i hold to myself that i cannot let go. And every time i think of that grudges, i realized smile is absent from my mouth.


For this trait, i still need to learn. I need to learn to let go. So, i can be happy person again.

Do you know any traits that happy people embraced? Maybe you can share with me here. From your experience, what other traits go with happy people?

Sunday, June 19, 2011

Because he is my daddy.

This morning, i look at the clock.

Is already 10.10 am.

I’m sure my dad is awake because that’s the time he will walk Kingkong. Is his daily routine. Or in fact, is Kingkong’s daily routine. Even though my dad is not around, Kingkong will not let go anybody in the house if his routine is not complete on the day itself.


Since i left PJ, my dad is the person that take of Kingkong. I’m sure Kingkong is more affection towards dad than me. However, he deserves it.

Because he is my daddy.

Saturday, June 18, 2011

Reality sets in between poverty and love

Last Saturday, i had a wonderful Hong Kong style breakfast with my aunts and uncle at Yoke Fook Moon, that is yum cha and dim sum.

Once we stepped out from the restaurant, i saw this uncle. Usually, he won’t attract my attention, but today i can’t help it but looks at him as though he is from outer space. Is the dog, who sleeps soundly between his legs. Although i do not understand what he wrote in Chinese, but I'm sure he meant about his poverty and needs help from us financially. Although i don’t know this uncle’s story, but beggars in Malaysia are corporation now. They formed a group of disabled people, put them  in worst clothing and spoke the ‘plea’ language. And these people wanders around the places at peak time. The best thing is they will be on in sight at peak hours, usually non-peak hour, you won’t see them.


This picture shown that reality if poverty can set in between love between the dog and uncle. While i see as double sadness as outsiders.

Sunday, June 12, 2011

Grumble of a Malaysia Government Servant Part 2

When i joined the physiotherapy college under the Ministry of Health, I met a few bunch of good lecturers which produced good students. These good lecturers are strict enough to be good. I believe in producing good foundation in each field. And if the foundation in these students are not strong, there goes their future and also the future of Physiotherapy in Malaysia, particularly public services.
However, during the years of studying in these college, i realized things are not so direct and clean as usual. You just need to play some political games, you can cruise your way into graduation hat with a blink. Some students are not producing well and doesn’t even know their anatomy right, can still pass their exam and graduate as physiotherapists. Can you imagine yourself seem by a physiotherapist who still think your Humerus bone is your Femur bone? You wouldn’t want that…
I vented out my frustration to a friend, and she told it can’t be control. Every time the school want to sack a low-graded student out, some-above will keep them stated it will be waste of money if you sack them out after Government supported them for 3 years.
And she is right, i have no control over it. And why would get so frustrated over it? I talked to few of my seniors at work place, and they told me they have been, done that and nothing will happened. And the ultimate advice they left me, just get over it, SL!!!
So, what happened when these students was chosen by people who are not in physiotherapy field? They ended up changing their hand phones every semester. And the end, patients suffered because they come to hospital for lousy services because these students were not given proper foundation. We may not be saving lives, but do not forget Physiotherapist are creating a new life for some people out there.
P/S: I am writing this post not because I'm against the government, I'm just venting out as a therapy for my burnt-out syndrome after 4 years a non-productive government servant.

Sunday, June 5, 2011

Grumble of a Malaysia Government Servant Part 1

I have enough as Malaysian Government Servant!!!

After working for four years as a physiotherapist in small city’s general hospital, I think i have the right to lament all the frustrations i suffered and endured in the public healthcare service.
And also is about time for me to voice out my right as the only Chinese physiotherapist in the general hospital of this city, which has a majority numbers of Chinese are residing in this peaceful and wonderful city. Although i got to admit this city is no good for people like me who are looking forward to self-improvement and advancing my career.
My desire to voice out my frustration grows stronger when i received this email from my senior, who i believed experienced the same amount of frustrations, in fact i believe more than me as he was in this industry before I'm born…\

The time of the letter is….

Particularly No Hope for the Malaysian Chinese - A Letter from a Chinese Malaysian Resident in USA

A Malaysian speaks up.... 

I am a female Chinese Malaysian, living in the Washington DC area in the United States . I have read many of the letters that often talk about foreign countries when the writers have no real knowledge of actually living in those countries.
Many draw conclusions about what those countries are like after hearing from someone else or by reading and hearing about them in the media or after four years in a college town in those countries. 

I finished STPM with outstanding results from the prestigious St George's Girls School in Penang . Did I get a university place from the Malaysian government? Nothing.. With near perfect scores, I had nothing, while my Malay friends were getting offers to go overseas. 
Even those with 2As got into university. I was so depressed. I was my parent's last hope for getting the family out of poverty and at 18, I thought I had failed my parents.

Today, I understand it was the Malaysian Government that had failed me and my family because of its discriminatory policies.

Fortunately, I did not give up and immediately did research at the Malaysian American Commission on Education Exchange (MACEE) to find a university in the US that would accept me and provide all the finances. My family and friends thought I was crazy, being the youngest of nine children of a very poor carpenter. 
Anything that required a fee was out of our reach.

Based on merit and my extracurricular activities of community service in secondary school, I received full tuition scholarship, work study, and grants to cover the four years at a highly competitive US university.

Often, I took 21 credits each semester, 15 credits each term while working 20 hours each week and maintaining a 3.5 CGPA. A couple of semesters, I also received division scholarships and worked as
a TA (teaching assistant) on top of everything else.

For the work study, I worked as a custodian (yes, cleaning toilets), carpet layer, computer lab assistant, grounds keeping, librarian, painter, tour guide, etc. If you understand the US credit system, you will understand this is a heavy load.

Why did I do it? This is because I learnt as a young child from my parents that hard work is an opportunity, to give my best in everything, and to take pride in the work I do. I walked away with a double major and a minor with honours but most of all a great lesson in humility and a great respect for those who are forced to labour in so-called `blue collar' positions.

Those of you who think you know all about Australia , US, or the West, think again. Unless you have really lived in these countries, i.e. paid a mortgage, paid taxes, taken part in elections, you do not understand the level of commitment and hard work it takes to be successful in these countries, not just for immigrants but for people who have lived here for generations.

These people are where they are today because of hard work. (Of course, I am not saying everyone in the US is hardworking... There is always the lazy lot minority..)
 that lives off of someone else's hard work. Fortunately, 
every single person, anywhere, should have the opportunity to succeed if they want to put in the effort and be accountable for their own actions. In the end, they should be able to reap what they sow.
It is bearable that opportunities are limited depending on how well-off financially one's family is but when higher education opportunities are race-based, like it is in Malaysia, it is downright cruel for those who see education as the only way out of poverty.

If you want to say discrimination is here in the US , yes, of course it is.  Can you name a country where it doesn't happen? But let me tell you one thing - if you go looking for it, you will find it.

But in Malaysia , you don't have to go look for it because it seeks you out, slaps you in your face every which way you turn, and is sanctioned by law!
Here in the US , my children have the same opportunity to go to school and learn just like their black, white, and immigrant friends. At school, they eat the same food, play the same games, are taught the same classes and when they are 18, they will still have the same opportunities. Would I want to bring my children back to Malaysia ?
So they can suffer the state-sanctioned discrimination as the non-Malays have had for over 50 years?

The injustice the non-Malay have to suffer in frightening silence is the most damaging problem one has to face throughout one's life. You just have to look at the mighty government structures which completely favours only one race, the UMNO Malay.
The Chinese and Indians are treated no better than the illegal Indonesians.

Racism and corruption are openly practiced by the Malay politicians everywhere, Courts, schools/Uni, police, govt offices, contracts, GLC, NEP, ISA, local govt.

It's so powerful and intimidating that you walk with fear and keep your mouth shut on anything and everything political.

Religion is taboo unless you talk good about Islam.

As for being a slave in the foreign country, I am a happy 'slave' earning a good income as an IT project manager.
I work five days a week; can talk bad about the president when I want to; argue about politics, race and religion openly; gather with more than 50 friends and family when I want (no permit needed) and I don't worry about the police pulling me over because they say I ran the light when I didn't.
Have we seen the light at the end of the tunnel yet (Anwar Ibrahim)?

Or is it the head light of an oncoming Umno train ?

Lets hope its the former for the sake of all fair-minded Malaysians.

The dream of a Malaysian 'race' in the future is nowhere in sight with the present BN govt.

Where is Negara-Ku???

Sunday, May 29, 2011



All these pictures are from SEIKO WATCHES OFFICIAL WEBSITE.

You can read their press release as well.

Let’s go visit Lee Hom at the studio where he did his shoot for this CF.

New Picture (7)

You can see him giving a little suggestion with the production team..

New Picture (4)

Then he is checking out the outcome… He seems happy with it..

New Picture (5)  

He poses most with his piano but it was not in the CF

New Picture (6)

And of course, he needs to pose with the WATCH

New Picture (8) 

Thursday, May 26, 2011

I want a Seiko Watch!!!!

Because Lee Hom is the new spokesperson for SEIKO watch…


Well, that’s only half of the truth. I actually i like SEIKO CRITERIA watches long time ago, when i saw Miriam Yeung’s SEIKO advert. I like this watch the best. Simplicity yet elegant. And Miriam Yeung really is a great celebrity, down to earth and funny.


Then, i browsed SEIKO CRITERIA watches and found this…

This is my favorite. The color has the contrast and similarity and the design is standout yet subtle at the same time.

And i never got the watch because of the price. Is pricey or maybe too pricey for government servant like me.

New Picture (1)

And also press release on LEE HOM as new spokesperson for SEIKO Criteria after Daniel Wu.

And this what he wants to share with his fans


‘When I'm creating, i try to keep myself open to inspiration. It can come from anywhere. Try to keep myself open to inspiration. I hear music in my sleep. I'll dream of lyrics.’


‘ i dedicate myself to singing. I practice everyday. It’s also an art form. People don’t realize singing also takes a lot of dedication and a lot of practice. It's because of dedication to the art and the 99% of perspiration. It’s hard work. There is no magic about it.’



And his commercial film with SEIKO CRITERIA watch will come in next post.

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

6 Important Lessons to Learn in Life.

Lesson 1: Naked Wife

A man is getting into the shower just as his wife is finishing up her shower when the doorbell rings. The wife quickly wraps herself in a towel and runs downstairs. When she opens the door, there stands Bob, the next door neighbor. Before she says a word, Bob says, “I’ll give you $800 to drop that towel.” After thinking for a moment, the woman drops her towel and stands naked in front of Bob.

After a few seconds, Bob hands her $800 dollars and leaves. The woman wraps back up in the towel and goes back upstairs. When she gets to the bathroom, her husband asks,…

“Who was that?” “It was Bob the next door neighbor,” she replies. “Great!” the husband says, “Did he say anything about the $800 he owes me?”

Moral of the story:

If you share critical information pertaining to credit and risk with your shareholders in time, you may be in a position to prevent avoidable exposure.

Lesson 2

A sales rep, an administration clerk, and the manager are walking to lunch when they find an antique oil lamp. They rub it and a Genie comes out. The Genie says, “I’ll give each of you just one wish” “Me first! Me first!” says the administration clerk. “I want to be in the Bahamas, driving a speedboat, without a care in the world.” Poof! She’s gone. “Me next! Me next!” says the sales rep. “I want to be in Hawaii,relaxing on the beach with my personal masseuse, an endless supply of Pina Coladas and the love of my life.” Poof! He’s gone. “OK, you’re up,” the Genie says to the manager. The manager says, “I want those two back in the office after lunch.”

Moral of the story: Always let your boss have the first say.

Lesson 3

A priest offered a lift to a Nun. She got in and crossed her legs, forcing her gown to reveal a leg. The priest nearly had an accident. After controlling the car, he stealthily slid his hand up her leg. The nun said,”Father, remember Psalm 129?” The priest removed his hand. But,changing gears, he let his hand slide up her leg again. The nun once again said, “Father, remember Psalm 129?” The priest apologized “Sorry sister but the flesh is weak.” Arriving at the convent, the nun went on her way. On his arrival at the church, the priest rushed to look up Psalm 129. It said, “Go forth and seek, further up, you will find glory.”

Moral of the story: If you are not well informed in your job, you might miss a great opportunity.

Lesson 4

A crow was sitting on a tree, doing nothing all day. A rabbit asked him,”Can I also sit like you and do nothing all day long?” The crow answered: “Sure, why not.” So, the rabbit sat on the ground below the crow, and rested.

A fox jumped on the rabbit and ate it.

Moral of the story: To be sitting and doing nothing, you must be sitting very high up.

Lesson 5: Power of Charisma

A turkey was chatting with a bull “I would love to be able to get to the top of that tree,” sighed the turkey, but I haven’t got the energy.” “Well, why don’t you nibble on my droppings?” replied the bull. “They’re packed with nutrients.” The turkey pecked at a lump of dung and found that it gave him enough strength to reach the lowest branch of the tree. The next day, after eating some more dung, he reached the second branch. Finally after a fourth night, there he was proudly perched at the top of the tree. Soon he was spotted by a farmer, who shot the turkey out of the tree.

Moral of the story: Bullshit might get you to the top, but it wont keep you there.

Lesson 6

A little bird was flying south for the winter. It was so cold the bird froze and fell to the ground into a large field. While he was lying there, a cow came by and dropped some dung on him. As the frozen bird lay there in the pile of cow dung, he began to realize how warm he was. The dung was actually thawing him out! He lay there all warm and happy, and soon began to sing for joy. A passing cat heard the bird singing and came to investigate. Following the sound, the cat discovered the bird under the pile of cow dung, and promptly dug him out and ate him.

Moral of the story:

1. Not everyone who shits on you is your enemy

2. Not everyone who gets you out of shit is your friend

3. And when you’re in deep shit, it’s best to keep your mouth shut!

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

She ran away from home....

13 April 2011

After so long i did not come to you to release my tension..... I cannot believe i have to come to you as my last resort....

She ran away to Penang yesterday.... We just found her.... I feel tired, lost and angry....

Yesterday night i was in Hotel for a course until i received call from him that she is un-contactable.... The Father received a call from her supervisor that she did not return to work after lunch break.....

Dav saw my stressed face.... she told me to take leave and settle the case in KL before go back to Ipoh...

After i settled with my course, i drove to shop. Along the way, The Father called me and said he received a call from her. But it was not her number. It was a public phone number 2290374.... My dad said she sounded lost.... She said she is in a dark room... She cannot come out.... We thought she was kidnapped.... Immediately the Father called inspector in charge and reported the same thing to him. The inspector in charge just simply entertained my dad.....

I reached shop.. Immediately i post her missing on Facebook and contacted my aunt in Ipoh for help.

Aunt worked efficiently.... She called the PPSKM in the north. And she managed to get them printed out brochure and the members helped us to pass the news around and also went to each telephone booth to call back their phone, so they can find the phone she used. Uncle and aunt in Penang also did the same.... I feel so thankful to have them.... even though we did not see each other more than once in a year... but these people are our family saviour.... Because of her my family indebted with so many people....

We did not receive any news till she called Father again.... But this time, she was using her handphone.... She described the place she was in.... i called Aunt and Uncle who was still in Penang the latest news we received from my sister.... Aunt told the PPSKM people, and they found her..... But when they found her, she was in acute psychosis.... Immediately, she was sent to A & E Hospital Penang...

It was 3 am when we found her.... We thanked the Inspector I/C despite he did not do anything to help.... We went home.... and drove to Penang early morning.....

When we reached Hospital Penang.... she was still asleep....

We spoke to the doctor and agreed to admit her for observation..... She was sent to psychiatric ward. Once she was more alert, no more drowsy from the medications, i observed her actions. And i know she was acting..... She did not have any psychotic features. She was acting as though she has psychotic features. i told Father and uncle about it. And Uncle tested at her and Father warned her that we will leave her inside this ward if she did not recover properly....

I feel something is amiss..... that't y i called the person who found her, who was also PPSKM member....

That guy told me that earlier of the day, he saw she stood in front of a dustbin... She was throwing a plastic bag into the dust bin, after that she picked up the plastic bag from the dust bin again.... He also felt something is wrong with the girl. But he did not received any news regarding her yet, so it did not occur that girl was she, I asked him what was inside the plastic bag. He said after he found her in the lorong, he went back to the dust bin to retrieve the plastic bag.... He said he found her purse and handphone are inside the plastic bag....

Immediately i told Brother this..... Earlier Brother told me he asked his sifu to look out for her... the situ said she is not alone and she is going to North....

I know she did something wrong and she knew she is wrong but did not how to cover it, that's why she is using psychosis method to cover her act....

After so many things we done for her, why would she does this to us?????

Monday, January 10, 2011

SUJU’s Choi Si Won and his ‘meow’

Band mates of Super Junior aka SUJU teased Siwon  for his excessive use of hand gestures, his special way of greeting by holding only three fingers up, his ability to "send electrical currents through his eyebrows," and his way of making mundane actions look like a commercial film.

Among fans, he is known to have comical facial expressions when shocked or overly happy. And one day, Siwon himself posted this in his twitter. One of his fans posted it.


He probably learnt this comical expression from these cats!!!!!

Kudos Siwon for your sense of humor…

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Letter to Ms Pretty

Interestingly, someone actually replied her post in the forum…. And is indeed a good one….. because is from the Wall Street Financial guy….

Dear Ms. Pretty,

I have read your post with great interest. Guess there are lots of girls out there who have similar questions like yours. Please allow me to analyze your situation as a professional investor. My annual income is more than $500k, which meets your requirement, so I hope everyone believes that I'm not wasting time here.

From the standpoint of a business person, it is a bad decision to marry you. The answer is very simple, so let me explain. Put the details aside, what you're trying to do is an exchange of "beauty" and "money": Person A provides beauty, and Person B pays for it, fair and square. However, there's a deadly problem here, your beauty will fade, but my money will not be gone without any good reason. The fact is, my income might increase from year to year, but you can't be prettier year after year. Hence from the viewpoint of economics, I am an appreciation asset, and you are a depreciation asset. It's not just normal depreciation, but exponential depreciation. If that is your only asset, your value will be much worried 10 years later

By the terms we use in Wall Street, every trading has a position, dating with you is also a "trading position". If the trade value dropped we will sell it and it is not a good idea to keep it for long term - same goes with the marriage that you wanted. It might be cruel to say this, but in order to make a wiser decision any assets with great depreciation value will be sold or "leased". Anyone with over $500k annual income is not a fool; we would only date you, but will not marry you. I would advice that you forget looking for any clues to marry a rich guy. And by the way, you could make yourself to become a rich person with $500k annual income. This has better chance than finding a rich fool.

Hope this reply helps.

J.P. Morgan

P.S: Good Job JP MORGAN…….

Letter from A Girl who Wishes to Marry a Rich Guy

I know i have been missing in action, i was busy with my dissertation and today 4th January 2011 is the beginning of year 2011 for me.

When i read this article in a forum (i forgot which forum), I cannot help it to copy, paste and share with all of you.

This world is reality. Sometimes human specifically this Singaporean little girl can be so realistic…. Therefore, she wrote in this forum to inform all the so-called rich men out there that she is looking for them…. even ask them where their hang-outs places!!!!!

Here is the letter,

Hello there,

I'm going to be honest of what I'm going to say here. I'm 25 this year. I'm very pretty, have style and good taste. I wish to marry a guy with $500k annual salary or above. You might say that I'm greedy, but an annual salary of $1M is considered only as middle class in New York . My requirement is not high. Is there anyone in this forum who has an income of $500k annual salary? Are you all married? I wanted to ask: what should I do to marry rich persons like you? Among those I've dated, the richest is $250k annual income, and it seems that this is my upper limit. If someone is going to move into high cost residential area on the west of New York City Garden ( ? ) , $250k annual income is not enough.

I'm here humbly (Hahahaha, she said humbly, i just can’t believe it)to ask a few questions:

1) Where do most rich bachelors hang out? (Please list down the names and addresses of bars, restaurant, gym)

2) Which age group should I target?

3) Why most wives of the riches is only average-looking? I've met a few girls who doesn't have looks and are not interesting, but they are able to marry rich guys

4) How do you decide who can be your wife, and who can only be your girlfriend? (my target now is to get married)

Ms. Pretty


P/S: Ms. Pretty, you have my salutation for your honesty….

        :There will be a reply from a rich man too…. in next post